“Remember Me Different”: Kelli and an Exploration of Plus-Size Characterizations in HBO’s Insecure

I want to remember her as more than just a punch line, and instead as a complex character

Simone Samuels
10 min readApr 27, 2020

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Picture from Revelist.com (HBO)

Insecure on HBO is one of my favourite shows.

One of the reasons why I love watching Insecure is because it resonates with my life. Like many (most? all?) Millennials, I am insecure about many things, including my personal life. I obviously can’t speak for everyone, but I believe that to be its main appeal — that the show is relatable.

The show is also empowering. On this one show, we have seen Black women take ownership of their sexuality in a way I have not seen on any other show. We have seen Black women take ownership of their careers in a way I have not seen on any other show. We have seen threesomes, and gay characters, and Asian love interests, and we have even seen plus-size characters — which is especially welcome since I identify as a plus-size woman myself.

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Simone Samuels
Simone Samuels

Written by Simone Samuels

I like big stories and I cannot lie. Authentic, transparent musings & connecting with others so we can all feel less alone. https://linktr.ee/simonesamuels

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